What is a Salubrious Family? Is it only a blood relationship or something more than that? Something like a Jem or Pearl?

"All happy families resembles one another,but each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way"~~ Leo Tolstoy

"Family" the word itself has profound symbolic meaning and an invisible competence.People who have large family actually comes out with the real value of what is family? I can take myself in because i have a large family too i may feel lucky sometimes unfortunate too.Specially in our country,if you see precisely you will figure it out thtat a large family is a devastating one if we decline to sustain each others value,respect and dignity.Its not a piece of cake i guess to sustain till last.Only if we manage to perceive the empathy of our family members through thick and thin inadvertently about property or wealth,its the only possible way it may last longer.Apparently,the only source of inspiration we get and it help us to acheive our goal.Family resembles " love".But who should we respect and terror the most among our family,Dadaji or Grandfather the Head of the Family,because he manages all the responsiblities and is the link between all us,connected to each of us individually,he has also experienced and struggled hard to reach so far and inevitably tried to innovate each of us in his own way.We should give ample amount of respect to him,he has shown the path which will lead us to a level of success and excellence.Grandparents played a crucial role in maintaining a long healthy relationship through custom,tradition and obviously their unbreakable disciplines and rules.We also followed the same path and feel humble and gratified to learn the factual impulse behind it.And its very simple we learned to value each other,true meaning of our parents,showing empathy with our elder brothers or cousins,rectifying the error of younger brother and sisters.Spending atleast an hour or two with your family is a stress-buster instead of realxing in a hotel or travelling far away from home.Now a days i can see and observe many incidents occuring in our country where parents are becoming filicide and children becoming paricide,it becomes more astonishing when we dig out the actual motif .i.e.fortune,is it a family,They wont sustain because their child has not been nurtured the real advantage of having a family and its lot more than money.Love and care for each other without any selfishness or cruel motive and knowing each other well is the sign of a sustainable happy family,which seems to dearth now a days.It should be like a iron bilboes you cant even imagine to break it,though anyone tries to break it with hammer it would harm the people who is trying hard to break but not the family who are connected to each other like a knot,thats a family.If you have a large family value the people you are bonded with,understand each other,value their feelings,encourage him or her to acheive their goal,be selfless,all good things will come to you if you are selfless.Power and strength are the key words of a happy family dont let money or selfishness come amidst,it wont take less than a second to shatter the whole family.If one member of a family can change his or her outlook then everyone will do it surely.Lets make it happen ,lets follow the great english proverb and stick to it like a magnet:" Unity is Strength".