Because its a world book day....i had to post it

"Now i think its one of the most useless questions an adult can ask a child—What do u want to be when you grow up?As if growing up is finite.As if at some point you become something and that's the end " ......... First Lady Michelle Obama.

                     The book that changed me personally as a thinker ..


FIRST LADY,the world recognize her as this Honorary Title,Practically she is the paradigm of what has been honored to her,in every manner,she has manifested herself and presently i can proudly shout out by announcing that she plays an absolute iconistic feminism in today's world ...Even i look upto her as a role model ,so why not an Indian u guyss must be in dilemma? But specifically i am not demoralizing my Country's feminist tycoons but there are certain reasons i prioritoze her.... Firstly,her never ending struggle which she continued to tackle till the end.
Secondly,authorizing herself no matter what n lastly,by not letting down herself or entangling in any societal or political or religious controversy.....highlightedly i marked n i found these reasons to be supreme in any cases if u wanna be the next epitome of such faultless personality..
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Because today is a special day for every Book lovers or Bibliophile lets have a scroll to my book i recently read and why its exceptional for me in compare to other books i read.BECOMING,Is the name of the book and its a memoir,published by Crown.
It has got so worthy and priceless points that must be instilled to every single person in present.The book has launched in 24 different languages and million solds..few months back undoubtedly the Book claimed to be the Best Seller Worldwide.Lets have a minute information about the Author before proceeding or analysing the Book.
Michelle Obama was born in Chicago,Illinois and graduated from an reputed University named Princeton and legal studies from Harvard Law School.As in now we must not be astonished about her profound wisdom she was born talent and ofcourse down there a digger as well.Presently,she plays a role model for women,an advocate for Poverty awareness and healthy eating.Not only that She was the first African-American Lady to be known.As a mother and wife she has outbreaked her limits and never compromised her daughter's nurture or education with her carrier.The more u dig down background about her i more u will get attracted and fascinated to her,i guess i am not the only there are so many more people out there who look upto her her..means how can we resist ourselves away from such a paragon persona.
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 Now lets have a miniature tour of the book and analyse it closely...ok so to start with lets have a look to her 10 vital steps towards Success...
•••Never make a limitless decision of who you wanna be acknowledge ur invisible bent
•••be a failure first learn from it n then move on ,initial acheivement wont teach u the real avail of success
•••try to excel in whateva u do doesnt matter how small or big the work is
•••never disrespect or compromise your passion for someone who dont value your worth or ambition always keep yourself upright n prioritize yourself 
•••the more u read the least u have the chance to take trivial steps and the more you become debatable and comprehensible and then write about those steps,simply jot down the points and make a habit of writing on a daily basis
•••be supportive dont try to succed individual or by pusing someone else down arise and walk together..real success leads to arising together not alone
•••among all these don't forget to live n make every moment golden 
•••respect and value urself push your limits
•••enlighten yourself or strenghten yourself by reading or supporting a human campaign 
•••lastly,have fun life is to short to waste,every second must be carpediem


HIGHLIGHTING POINTS FROM THE BOOK 

400 page exapnsion the book Becoming is.
The book has Michelle's own story and she portrayed herself as a struggler,journey of highs and lows with her husband,her persepective,her family background and somewhere racial dispostion.Few sorrow events that ended up into a ceasing memont presently,sorrow of misscarriage,loneliness of living and how she overcame it and finally committed to Barack Obama till the end,only to discover for happy hour nights where single people would mingle.Every point is relevant in this book and so the quotes its so relatable and seems to be realistic as well..
In this book she reveals her life as an alchemy,her compromise and habituation with a family of four,sharing ine bed apartment
 Her complexion turns out to be most challenging path for whe she ultimately overcame by tackling smartly.She describes herself in her early years as the striver.
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The most remarkable among all is her committed realtionship with her husband and her daughters,its commendable.No matter how the path was she make sure to stand by side her husband and encouraging him to every way possible.Undoubtedly,if we praise Obama as a President half the credit goes to her better half for pushing him to the limits to which he was unaware of.Some of the life lessons quotes i shall put in here it will make easy to analyse for us to analyse what all she went through and why we should read this book
•For me,becoming isn't about arriving somewhere or acheiving a certain aim.I see it instead as forward motion,a means of evolving,a way to reach continously toward a better self.The journey doesn't end.

•For every door that's has been opened to me,I've tried to open my doors to others.There is power in allowing yourself to be known and heard,in owning your own unique story,in using your own authentic voice.And there's is a grace in being willing to known and hear others.This,for me,is how we become

•failure is a feeling long before it's an actual result.Its vulnerablity that breeds with self-doubt and then is escalated.ofter deliberately,by fear

•Your story is what you have,what you will always have.It is something to own

•Friendships between women,as any women will tell you,are built of a thousand kindness...swapped back and forth and over again

•Women endure entire lifetimes of these indignities- in the form of catcalls,groping,assault,opression.Theae things injure us and they sap our strength.Some of the cuts are small they are barely visible.Others are huge and gaping,leaving scars that never heal.Either,way they accumulate.We carry them everywhere,to and from school and work,at home while raising our children,at our places of worship,anytime we try to advance

•It hurts to live after someone has died.It can hurt to walk down halfway or open the fridge.It hurts to put on a pair of socks,brush your teeth.Food tastes like nothing.Colors go flat.Music hurts,and so do memories.You would look at something you would otherwise find beautiful---Grief is so lonely this way

•At 54,i am still in progress,and i hope that i always will be

•Bullies were scared people hiding inside scary people

•We were planting seeds of change,the fruit of which we might never see.We had to be patient

• I had been lucky to have parents,teachers,mentors who had fed me with consistent,simple message:you matter.

Its an absolute must be read book ...she has remained the same girl throughout the working class from Chicago to The First Lady and an iconic.She herself is an inspiration,i am glued to her starighforward and openness to whatever she has quoted in the Book..Dream to atleast see your glance once in my lifetime..🙏

She is a gift to the entire Universe💖